EMMA* reveals what it’s really like inside one of London’s elite sex parties.
Unless you’ve been to a sex party, it’s hard to describe the levels of debauchery that goes on behind closed doors.
This is why the Daily Star Online has spoken to regular sex party attendee, Emma* (name changed for privacy) who revealed that she has slept with up to 12 men in one night at one of the many parties she has attended.
Below, Emma reveals what really happens inside one of London’s sex parties:
What is your sexuality?
“It’s taken me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, I guess it’s because when I was growing up all my friends referred to bisexuals as greedy.”
What attracted you to sex parties? Has it always been something you’ve been interested in?
“I love dressing up and playing a character, and sex parties allow you do to that. You can choose to stay how you always are or you can explore different sides to yourself. That opportunity to experiment with who I was was a main driving factor.”
What sex parties do you go to?
“Killing kittens, Torture Garden, La boudoir and The nights of saint francis to name a few.”
What are the rules?
“Obviously there are different underlying rules for every party, but ultimately ‘no means no’ and never join unless your invited. Everyone respects the rules and if they don’t their out immediately. One of my friend got caught with her phone out at Torture Garden (TG) and she was out the door.”
How did you get involved in the London sex party scene?
“I went to my first TG with two girls I used to work with. I suggested it, and they said they’d been wanting to go for ages. It was one of the best nights out I’ve ever had and since then I’ve been hooked.”
Who do you go to sex parties with?
“It’s a good mix. Mainly friends, I once brought a date which was fun. But I’ve found its best to go with one or two of your best friends. It means you can meet more people and you’re not stuck minding a date or with a group of friends.”
Do you have a partner? If so how do they feel about the parties?
“No, I don’t. If I did I’m sure we would have to come to some level that we agreed on. Anyway, If I was ever with someone I’d want them to be confident in our relationship that they’d trust me to go to a party.”
Can you describe exactly what happens in a sex party?
“It’s different for every party, but generally you get dress inspected on arrival, (I’ve seen people get turned away if they haven’t stuck to the dress code), go get a drink, explore the different rooms, there’s always different performances on which are good to watch. Then as the party progresses just start flirting with people etc.”
What are the demographic of people who go to a sex party?
“Absolutely every shape, size, age and colour. Which I love. On normal nights out there’s a certain type of person, but at sex parties everyone is welcome.”
What is the most outrageous thing you’ve seen at one of the parties?
“At one party there was a medical room. I watched a girl get needles put through the skin of her bum. I guess it wasn’t outrageous just I’d never seen something like that before and never thought someone could enjoy it. But she was loving it!
“I remember one time I made a guy friend wait for me in the cage room, I went off to the bar and got a guy on a leash to buy me a drink. I then led him and his friend back to the cage room tied all three up and made them watch me get whipped. It was amazing.
“I also remember at one of them I was in an orgy and a guy made me squirt all over his friend, which was an experience.”